The Inner GAP
Every person has two basic lives, the one they enact in front of everyone and the one the enact in their minds. These two different personalities are at a constant tug of war within every person. When we were born, we only had one personality. We act and play out what is in our mind. As we grew with age our parents and society imposed restrictions on us and there started the birth of the twin personalities. These twins start to grow up side by side and they are pity much non differentiable at a tender age.
Pushed in to the Kindergarten and the child is strictly restricted and punished to follow the rules. The child is not allowed to be free and do what they think. Many academicians may tell that this is part of learning, but in reality the child is forced to stop thinking on their own and their thoughts are caged within the four walls of the classroom. The kid is fed information that it has no interest and has to forcefully take it threatened by the whiplashes and haunting stares.
As the age builds up the child's mind constantly wants to relax, go out, play, enjoy and be creative while the physical self is chained to to a desk forcing them to sit and study for the exams. The child has a set of subjects in front of it that they both like and dislike. But there is no option to omit the subject that they do not like. In some cases the parents may be forcing the child to pursue the one stream that they dislike. This constant feeding of dislike rages a war within the child and the child's mind is a time-bomb waiting to explode.
The rising disparity between the inner self and outer self is at a tipping point and the child will do anything at its disposal to bridge the gap between their two personalities. At this point the child is desperate depressed and enraged at himself and his surroundings. They cant show their descent at home so they start bullying their peers and also younger kids making others suffer. They go into guilty pleasures where inflicting pain and suffering becomes an enjoyment to them.
With age boys start to target the girls and try to grab their attention to make them look smart in front of others. This can lead to different complex issues as the girls act helpless to such intrusions shown by boys. The fact that the girls in our society are taught to be distanced from boys rather than teaching them to look straight into the eyes and respond makes it easy for such boys to be even more aggressive and threatening.
This complexity in both boys and girls grow into a big gap within themselves and in college with much more freedom these two folks start to bridge the gap in themselves with the help of each other.
They both forget the fact that the gap within themselves was there from the start and it is them only who can fill it by understanding themselves more. No one can walk into your life and expect to full your void, everyone has deep gorges of their own.
Its important in life to understand yourself and the gap between your inner and outer self. Understand your strengths and weakness, find out what makes you happy and what doesn't. find time to learn more about your interest areas and work on it.
As a grownup you always can look to the younger generation and understand what they are going through. Put yourselves in their place and understand their pulse. Guide them and make them understand what is good in them and convince them to peruse it.
Remember no one is born bad, its the void in everyone that creates the devil. As a person who is going through hell, you know the value of understanding things early in life. So teach others to choose their path at the earliest. Lets us bridge the gap..!
****Stop Think & Act****